REMEMBER : IF IT HURTS, IT'S PROBABLY WORTH IT

October 28, 2009

IRONIC.


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The one person you love the most could also be the one who hurts you the worst. Isn't it ironic?

They say, if you love someone, you must fight for them. Because time flies fast, and this might be your only chance. But what if you've fought as hard as you could, and that one person still doesn't see you? Then stop. YOU are important, YOU must be happy. Some people are idiots, they can't see the love that's in front of their eyes. Isn't it ironic?

40 comments:

tiana pertiwi said...

waw i love it kak...
aku ngerasain GAK ENAK ... :)

Cassey said...

:')

monsterofblah said...

kalau kata All american Rejects :
even when your hope is gone
move along,make it trough..
i know u can through everything that hits you in the face(and heart),even the worst one.be strong cass,
a big polar bear hug for ya :)

(ps:just ignore my bad english)

Cassey said...

Aww thank you, that's very sweet of you :)

Dhea Laras said...

emm pas banget, bikin mikir lagi.. thank youuu kak :)

Cassey said...

Sesekali egois nggak papa kok, yang penting kita bahagia. Jangan biarkan orang lain membuat kita sedih :')

Dilla Awaluddin said...

like what monkey to millionaire said,

"mereka yang kita sayangi, yang paling mampu melukai."

:')

dela said...

these whole things bukan tentang Jason kan?

bener Cas, kadang-kadang kita emang perlu egois demi kebhagiaan sendiri.
capek kalo hidup hanya untuk orang lain..
hidup kan cuma sekali.

Lidwina Grata said...

awww what's with those words dear?
i used to date with wrong guy, and i did fight as hard as i could, but then i realized i was wrong, he doesn't even worth it.
those who make you cry doesn't even worth for your tears, your tears only worth for those who never make you cry. seriously, i'm 22 and i've felt it several times.

cheer up :)

Mutiara said...

totally right, cass :') it's just not worthy to let ourselves drown because of someone else who might don't realize we are exist, our efforts are exist....

Taradise said...

Cassssss, aku harap ini bukan kamu sama Jason! Ini sedih banget bagi siapapun yg menghadapin perasaan kayak gini, super menyebalkan. T_____T"

Utin said...

take your time cass ;)

healing, healing

then back again with a better feeling :)

Nunu Fithria said...

I once read that "Love is giving a person the power to destroy you but trusting them not to." It is ironic, but then again if you don't love them you won't give a fuck about what they do. I don't know what happened, but whatever it was, I hope you pass it just fine. Remember that you're awesome!

rizky maretha said...

uhm,speechless cass
"kena!" bangeeeeeet :((

Aishanatasha said...

aww let me give you a hug! come over here soon and we'll have a cuppa tea

Cassey said...

hey guys, i'm not sure yet, but i think my relationship is over :(
i'd like to keep in touch with all of you, but give me time ok.

Miranti said...

Hi Cassey!
I'm a new comer to your blog and I found myself go over your blog which is very interesting.Love ur photos and words by the way.

hope we can be friends!

Cheers

thifuu said...

wew I do really like this one !somepeople just can't realise how important they are if they opened their eyes widely

Janit said...

are you serious, Cass? oh shoot, so sorry to hear that :(

Give yourself time to calms the mind. The best is yet to come.

Giddy up! :D

x

rizky maretha said...

oh my dear :'(
i'm sorry to hear that cass
time would heal your wound soon
cheer up cass,i know you can :)

Sashaa said...

aw cassey.. it's okay. i know how you feel. cheer up :D everything will be okay. aitee? cheer up cass. and if you need somebody to talk, just buzz me on my ym. i'll be available :)

love,
-s.

Anonymous said...

do you know that your relationship is like a public affair???do you mind???

vegarduel said...

I'm way out on this one. All I can say is I'm sorry to hear that :(
Don't cheer up, do something destructive instead - that should cheer you up!

dela said...

ng cass..
sorry to hear that..
hope you heal soon, and come back as cheerful Cassey as usual!

evita nuh said...

kak cassey I really don't know what to say, but try to hear this song, when my sister is dying from a brokenheart her bestfriend sending this song to her, and she played this song over and over again for weeks. and she's doing just fine after that, and no, it's not "I will survive" song. this song reminds you that there's someone out there who loves you :) I hope this will cheer you up :)

I want to quote my favorite line, but what can I do, the whole song is my favorite line :) so here it goes,

Cry if you want to
I won't tell you not to.
I won't try to cheer you up,
I'll just be here If you want me.
It's no use in keeping a stiff upper lip,
You can weep, you can sleep
You can loosen your grip.
You can frown, you can drown
And go down with the ship.
You can cry if you want to.

Don't ever apologise venting your pain,
Its something to me you don't need to explain.
I don't need to know why,
I don't think its insane.
You can cry if you want to.
The windows are closed,
The neighbours aren't home,
If its better with me than to do it alone,
I'll draw all the curtains
,
And unplug the phone
You can cry if you want to.

You can stare at the ceiling,
And tear at your hair,
Swallow your feelings,
And stagger and swear.
You can show things and throw things
and I wouldn't care.
You can cry if you want to.
I won't make fun of you.
I won't tell anyone.
I won't analyze what you do
Or you should have done.
I won't advise you to go and have fun.
You can cry if you want to.

Well its empty and ugly
And terribly sad.
I can't feel what you feel,
But I know it feels bad.
I know that its real
And it makes you so mad.
You can cry.
Cry if you want to,
I won't tell you not to.
I won't try to cheer you up.
I'll just be here if you want me to be near you.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TJkxf4qPRI&feature=PlayList&p=2A317C1FE5DD17BB&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=2

malizah said...

yes cassie self love comes first !! wow i wish at 19 i had your wisdom. hang in there wonderwoman!!!

add me on facebook if you want
malizah isa
i'm a fan
btw congrats on winning the blog competition!

rusiana luthfie said...

only time could fix ur broken heart,dear:)

Neno said...

lovely blog dear.
do you took all the photos?
i like them all :D

Neno said...

ohya..don't slave your self of someone else's happiness..
your happiness is the most important dear :D

nadiraa said...

your tagline :
REMEMBER : IF IT HURTS, IT'S PROBABLY WORTH IT

maybe jason worth it

Cassey said...

@Miranti
Hi there! I'm glad that you stumbled over my blog and actually liked it :)
Thank you very much for your kind words.

@thifuu
Mhmm, indeed. What a terrible world we live in, huh?

Cassey said...

@Janit
Yeah, seriously. I thought it was just a nightmare, apparently it was hell. I'm ok though now :)

@rizky maretha
Thank you dear :)

@Sashaa
Thank you very much for offering, that's very sweet of you, I'll buzz you some time :)

Cassey said...

@Anonymous
Mhmm, I've noticed that since last year, and I've tried to make it as private as possible. I know that blogging about my personal life isn't such a good thing, but it just flowed that way. I'm sorry if I've caused any discomfort for you, if you don't like my blog so much, it's ok for not coming back. Thank you for the critic. I'm trying to change to be better.

Cassey said...

@vegarduel
Hi there, friend. I actually did something so destructive, woke up hung over somewhere I didn't recognized, and then after, I felt so much better :D

@dela
I'm healed, thank you for the nice words :)

Cassey said...

@evita nuh
Oh sweetheart, thank you very much. That's a very nice song, the words really got me! You're such a diamond, hugs xo.

@malizah
Hahaha, thank you! We all have wisdom, it just comes out only when we need it :)

Cassey said...

@rusiana luthfie
Indeed. If only time could fly more faster ;')

@Neno
Yes, I did take most of the photos here on this blog. Thank you for liking em.

Cassey said...

@nadiraa
Hahaha, wow, you got me! He was worth it, he is a great person. But even so, being hurt all the time isn't something I want either :')

rieka sartika said...

cheer up cutie,,
be strong..i know you are *hug*

Cassey said...

Aaw thank you :)

jacobian said...

well actually you are correct. but it's better to fell in love and get hurt than don't do nothing at all. :-)

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