You knew the answer will hurt you. But you asked anyway. Trying to get the fact, trying to find out the truth. The truth hurts, as people have said. But even so, you opened your mouth and asked. DANG! Yes, the answer did hurt. The next thing you know, you're bruised deep inside and wished you shouldn't have asked, but at the same time you're relieved that you now know the "hurtful truth" so all you need to do is move on.
I've done it a million of times. And I still have another million questions to ask. To my mom, to my boyfriend, to my dad, to my best friend, maybe to you, and to certain people out there that might or might not exist.
Here's a simple example we can all relate to. Remember that time you asked your ex, "Are we done? Are we over? Is it really really over?" and the answer was a simple "Yes". Oh man didn't that hurt like hell? But you've moved on haven't you? Perhaps you cried for days, or maybe you just went out with some friends, or maybe you found a replacement right away (wow, you're so lucky). But whatever happened next, the bottom line is, you moved on.
I have questions to ask, but I know the answers will hurt me. And now I'm in the greatest fear, but also I'm consumed with curiosity. But you know what? As my favorite saying goes, "If it hurts, it's probably worth it". So I guess I will ask. Sooner or later.
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Being a photographer isn't always 'easy snap-snap'. Sometimes the objects just refuses to be photographed :p
Maybe I should start taking photos of plants instead hahaha. Loves in photos are : Wendee, Prisci, Fathony, & Jason.
P.S : I'm having a MAJOR crush on Adam Samberg right now. Funny guys are just hotness yummyness meaooow~
52 comments:
I think we're in the same position. I really want to ask about something and I'm so friggin scare to ask about it and scare of the hurtful truth too. Oh god help me..
I'm agree with you, Cass. I ever asked to my ex, that I knew it would hurt me much. Some questions like "Are we done yet?" such that, then he answered "Yes, we'd better off that way." Geez.. that soo hurt me!! But thanks God, though it hurt much, I learned more things. I moved on, found the other love, and now I'm giggling to those moments.
After all, by questioning something we already know that it would hurt, at least we've tried our best! yeah it worth!
this post is so true kak! lbh mending sakit hati drpd mati penasaran muehehehe :P
OMG ANDY SAMBERG! I have a massive crush on him, too <3 Have you heard his songs (with The Lonely Island)?
>nindya aydina
Yes, you're right. Who we are depends on the choices we make in life. And even though sometimes we get hurt, what doesn't kill us just makes us stronger ;)
>Kanira Supono
Well, knowing the truth is much better than having people lying to your face. Or maybe not literally lying, just hiding facts. And I always hate it when I find out about something that people around me has known for quite some time and didn't tell me. Experiences like yours is the most common thing people do, hiding the truth with a reason not to hurt you. But even so, sooner or later, you found out anyway.
>Kimo Allegra
Hahaha yea exactly. That's the good side of it, once you've moved on, you can laugh about it in the future. Definitely worth it :p
totally agree with you cass, hehe. I think it's better to know the thruth so at least we can start to move on, however it hurts. at least I'm out of my curiousity, which sometimes annoyed me more than the hurtful thruth itself
Yea, just couldn't agree more ;p
Thank you! Glad you like 'em
oh god. i feel for ya! but it helps to hear it, and then you can move on. at least i hope!
>Alanda
Don't be sorry, I'm glad you do. I tried not to curhat anymore on my blog but I really needed to get this out of my system. Questions, aaah questions that I already know the answers would hurt >:(
>drollgirl
I know! Exactly what I'm saying ;P
movee onn casss......... ^^, you won't know why this thing happened to your life until you move on and see that it's worth in the end..
yeah,,,
i've been through that kind of feeling..
Maybe the truth is hurtful,but it's better if we know the truth than hiding inside a lied..
You have to move on...
GO cassey...
LOl..
:))
hey cass how r u? =)
im in the same situation like u rite now and its related to my bf.
i know something but i just want him to be honest with me, maybe its a test to see how faithful he can be to me. although i already know the answer, but still, im gonna ask.
i know it will hurt me, but whatever, the more you got hurt, more stronger you will be in the future. and its because u r brave enough to know about truths no matter how hard it is to deal with. good luck with everything cass. u r super girl! =D
Yeah you're true, way much better than pretending and lying. Huhuu
Hehehe, yes of course. But before moving on I still need to find out the hurtful truth. And asking about it scares the crap out of me
>Arrum
Aaaah, I was sooo sure that you guys had this one in common with me! It sucks so bad doesn't it. Like you're in dilemma, "ask or not", but you know the answer will hurt, but not asking only drives you mad! I'm asking for help too!
Hehehe, well, pengen deh dilupain, tapi kepikiran terus! Oh but don't worry, bukan masalah sama pacar kok. Cerita diatas cuman contoh aja, hehehehe. Ntar Jason salah paham lagi :p
You know, it's okay kok mau say anything disini. Apapun itu. Masa gw marah-marah sih? Hehehe.
Anyways, why are you guys suddenly calling me super girl??? Is that a new nickname for me? Hahaha
Now yes! That's exactly what I'm talking about! I know something about someone, it's driving me crazy. But I really wish I never found out, because asking these kind of questions just gives such a pain in the chest. Oh well, good luck to you too :)
yes yes yes.. move on!! if it hurts, it's probably worth it :) and never regret or disappointed.. because, what you choose is what makes you now :D
yup! i totally agree with you cass. we are living in a real world. so please wake up guys! truth is sometimes hurt! but its much better than livin' in the world fulls of liar!
dan yang membuat gue murka adalah waktu temen gue bilang:
"tuh kan apa gue bilang tha,mending loe gak tau sama sekali. dari pada tau kan jadi kayak gini!"
what the heck!!! all i need is the truth! no matter what! (titik!)
hahahahahahaha *emosi
GO CASSEY! :)
Wow, Cass, your story is very match with the photos, the people on those photos KNEW that they would look bad if you shoot them. this problem sometimes attacked me too. it's not easy to persuade them to believe me that they would look good in the photo, and me too, sometimes, it's not comfortable when your face was being taken by other people. hahaha,
by the way, cass, although I never have any boyfriends before, your problem about expressing your curiosity like this ever happens to me, although i'm an extrovert. I think you should try to be brave or you will hurt yourself, because, Cass, you are a student and you still have a future. It's better to know the truth now rather than wait until 'something bad' happens all of sudden.
tapi cass, kalo misalnya lo lupain pertanyaan lo juga nggak apa sih, kamu coba cari kesibukan aja biar nggak inget terus (tapi beda ya kalo ini menyangkut masalah kuliah, hehehe)
btw, sama aja kayak saya sekarang. saya pengen nebak apa pertanyaan itu disini tapi saya takut kamu marah.
tapi kamu super-girl, Cass. Karena walau kamu lagi stress, grammarnya masih tetep bagus :) hihihi
>rizky maretha
Now that's the exact thing I'm trying not to go through. The fact that people around me are hiding certain things from me just sucks. Even though mereka cuman nggak pengen kita sakit, atau sedih. But still, hellooo? I'm not blind. Hahahaha.
Hayo jangan pake emosi ;) hehehe.
>Ordinary Diary
Yes, of course. Semuanya pasti akan baik-baik aja, daripada ditutup-tutupin. So, I decided to ask some time near :)
The truth hurts than anything hehehe tapi lebih mending tau yang sebenernya daripada engga :) I had this kind of situation before. I really wanted to make up with my ex boyfriend and then I found out he was secretly dating with my own friend. That was really hurt. Because they didnt want to tell me because they didnt want to hurt me. Ooh, C'mon. I think it's better if they told me first so i wouldnt expect about something too much.
Well that's my own experience :)
i ever did like u too.. i ask someone that i loved, i know the answer will hurts me, but i keep on going.. walopun itu bakal jadi sebuah kejujuran yg nyakitin tp ya..akhirnya masih baik2 aja kok.. u might forget but u cant erase from your mind..
yaa ciayooo aja yaaaa!go cassey go cassey go!
wow, ini post paling mantab cass...
walu memang nyakitin tapi itu merupakan kebenaran.
makanya most of people lebih milih untuk membohongi diri sendiri dari pada menyakiti diri sendiri dengan kejujuran.
;)
maen-maen k blog gw yee ;)
"Anyways, why are you guys suddenly calling me super girl??? Is that a new nickname for me? Hahaha"
its probably because of all girls are super! =p
no matter how hurt we are, we can always move on and being better! rite girls? =p
anyway cass, never regret what will happen, its a lesson worth living =)
jangan dilupain..
forget never solve any problems.
just ask,
you do it, dear..
kak, cara edit foto kayak foto yg ke-2 gmn? thank's
oh gosh what happened to you?
are you okay?
"Being a photographer isn't always 'easy snap-snap'. Sometimes the objects just refuses to be photographed :p"
in my case, people around me reflexly (how does it spell?)smile! Ahh pada narsis semua...
i've been through that kind of feeling too..!!!
and it really really freak me out when i knew the truth. it was really hurt, but honesty is worth more than hypocrisy.
we have to be ready for any truth, right? :)
go cassy go! :)
Oh yes indeed
>Mutiara
Yes! It's definitely annoying knowing something that everyone is hiding from you. And quite silly, because you found out anyway :p
>Talitsch
HE'S HOTNESS RIGHT?!! Of course I've heard, I've downloaded the whole album already! Hilarious!
>vebryadayadaaa
Nothing happened, I'm okay :p
Hahaha, yeah compared to the majority of people I'm around, the ones that just looooveees the camera attention is more plenty than those who avoids it. Hahaha, I just happen to have really best friends who hates it when I point my camera to them :p
Hi cass! Yup this happen to me all the time. :( But instead i can do photographs that can make my day work nice(don't u?).
Btw, ur pictures are really great. Everyone knew it cass.
Oh, the 3rd pic..the man with 'oh-don't hand' It's in Mahakam rite? The place which Trupala's loves to hang around rite? :D
>acilalala
Hahaha yeah I guess so, girl power! Haha
>dela
Indeed, don't worry, I'm not going to let go of my problems ;p
>Nur Zaman
Oh wow, thank you! Hehehe. Yeah, begitulah manusia :p
Ohkay, nanti gw mampir yaa
>Nisa Puspasari
Betul! Itu dia maksud aku, aku tau aku bakal agak sakit hati tapi mendingan begitu deh daripada aku mati penasaran!! Haha
>erika ujung
Caranya copy-paste texture ke photonya. Mmm, agak repot nih ngejelasinnya, tp aku coba ya. Jadi aku copy texture dari photo lain, terus aku paste di photo yang mau aku edit itu. Terus opacitynya aku kurangin, dari 100% ke 50%. Udah deh, setelah itu cuman edit-edit warna aja. Kalau kurang jelas, email aku aja ke cassandraniki@gmail.com, nanti aku coba jelasin lebih detail.
Aww thanks! Yes, exactly! You're smart! Hahaha. That is indeed at Mahakam, right beside my high school. I used to hang out there everyday before and after school :p I'm a proud member of Trupala :D
it just happened to me a few days ago. i was asking questions to my ex...(honestly, i don't wanna claim him as my ex) about our relationship. he was lying all the time. for months.... that sucks.
Well, the truth is, the truth hurts ;p
Surely Cass, I cannot resist the charm of those pictures. Cool!
well, your favorite quote already explains everything :)
anyway, i love Andy too! I've been watching him on SNL since a long time ago, and heck yeah those video really make me laughing my ass off, hahaha.
Cheer up, Cass.xox
geez. i just love this post. sorry. but i love it. same thing here soalnya.
>hasiantideamita
Awh, I'm sorry to know that. Feel better soon k?
>Janit
Oh yes yesssss, he is just plain hilarious. Ever since SNL, suddenly went totally popular, from just an ordinary guy. Aaaaah me likeyyyy :"}
hurts but worth it rite? :]
Probably :p
well I totally agree with you, but my friend told me about this quote "the truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable". but the point is, it will heal!
kak cassey aku udah ngerti cara copas texturenya trus aku masih bingung cara ubah tonenya? kak cass biasanya pake apa dan gmn caranya?
thank's a lot
>nurani pertiwi
Exactly what I'm saying, no matter how much it hurts, it will heal. And whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger :}
>erika ujang
Ubah tonenya sesuai selera kamu aja pake tools di Photoshop, atau kamu bisa coba download salah satu file Action Photoshop yang udah aku upload : http://blog.casseybunn.com/search/label/Photoshop%20Actions
>xanabioticx
Awwh, thanks for sharing. I've been in a same position, but I don't feel like blabbering about it here. Of course, it will definitely makes us wiser and stronger.
truth hurts but truth will only make you stronger, if not, wiser.
about fourteen years ago, i found that my father loved me (father and daughter kind of love). which is why he was never there when i was born and when i was growing up. i have never met my father. that was the hardest truth for me. but, on a much brighter note, i grew up to be a strong person. i don't break easily.
swallow the truth, then learn from it, love.
:)
ooh how lucky you, cassey! im trying oh so damn hard to loose weight! huhuhu T.T visit me on my blog
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