My relationship has been going on for a year and a half now, and doing this long distance thingy kinda sucks, but I admit it's a good practice. Missing someone just makes you love them even more. I meet my boyfriend once in a month or two, and waiting for that time to come is exciting, yet what an awful test for my patience skills (PFF!). And when this time comes, I just can't wait to get off the plane (or train) and hurry see him and hug hug hug him like we haven't met for years. But something I noticed about him as time passes by, every time we get the chance to meet after that being away part, something has changed about him. In a good or bad way. In a small or big way. Simple things like changes in his taste in clothes or music, or something huge like his principals, thoughts, point of views about certain things. It's weird. Somehow I can't catch up. And keep hoping nothing should ever change. I wonder, do I change too?
Some shots from my first roll using Nina, my Diana+. Pff, I'm no good in lomography. These were taken on my way to airport to yet again say goodbye to Jason.
Being apart from each other means losing track of each other's lives for a tiny bit amount of time (or long long longer), and it takes a while to catch up with each other. Which is of course– supposed to be the fun part, but... Aaaah, what am I talking about? I'm blabbering like crazy. Anyway, I'm just happy to finally hug Jason again.
Tell me about your relationship, present or previous. I'm a fan of love stories.
P.S : This video is so fun! Love it!
84 comments:
nice photos. where did you buy the film for your diana? it's really hard to find it here..
aah im gonna feel the same way like you cassey. i'll move to another city when i'm in college but my bf still here. i hope distance is nothing, just like you and jason :D
forget to tell you hehe. i'm in bogor.. must go to aksara soon hehehe
thankssss for your words cassey :DD
aw. i need to hug my cat or something.
Cass, I've just notice a little CHANGE on yourself.
YOU OFTEN SAY, "Pff" NOW!
LMAO, that's only one of yours.
by the way, how's life being a philosopher? my friends always think weird if they talking about philosophy.
one day I asked them about the meaning of philosophy and the example. They asked me back, "why paper's colour is white?". I said I don't know, then they said to me that the answer is one of the meaning of philosophy.
they even said that if you get into philosophy, your beliefs and your soul will affected. Can you tell me about your experience as a philosophy student?
hi sist Cassey.. :D
oh, my love story was going to chaos--well i mean, it had been chaos! hahaha! -,-
we're split up, but then i want to go back on his side, but he refused me...
for Christ's sake! what a life!
Well, those are nice photos, cass!
I'd like to tell you about mine :
I've been recovering from broken heart. My boy had left me without any reason. Terrible. As I know, he only got bored of what he used to and I didn't get any patience for it. He had changed a lot. Now I can't stop pretending that everything's OK, yet I keep wondering why he left me. Simply, I predict this thing is about the process of self-searching, which could be pathetic; and maybe Jason has been getting his own way to describe, to build, to make his own life, his mind, or his heart. I think it isn't only for Jason, you are too, Cass. We're now 18 years old and we're at the phrase of being hectic over our problems. May we couldn't get the way to fix it, or even we're totally lost about it. But believe me, we're at the phrase of self-searching, I'm sure you've been doing good to mean it :)
Cassey dearest. Somehow I'm so happy you got more reader and commentator in your blog. Rame nih udah blog km syg, km laku! Ak juga naksir sih soalnya, I like reading your blog.
Ah lucky you. You get to see Jason like after every 2months or something. Me? I am luck I have been lucky, to have been able to come home after every 4 months. This year I won't be coming home that often anymore. :(
long distance relationships are so tough. i hope yours works out!!! i tried it once with a captain (of ships -- ha!), but he was overseas constantly and it got so we only saw each other a couple of times a year. that was too hard for me.
now i have a boyfriend that i live with, so we see A LOT of each other. hahahahahahahahah.
there are pros and cons to all relationships, for sure! i hope you enjoy your time with your man and hug him like crazy until you feel all better!
cass, i just broke up with my boyfriend for tough reason.
and we still love each other. we create our own distance, for god sake!
but it still feel like "physically absent but emotionally there".
and yes distance is nothing by then.
>drollgirl
Definitely tough. But so far we're doing pretty good.
Whoa, a captain? Of a ship? Hahahahaha now that's hot. Like seriously hot. But meeting him only a couple times in a year? Phew, i don't think i'll be able to do that. i'm so envious, i wish i could live with boyfriend. This distance really sucks, can't wait to be finished with college! haha!
>neriva
Awh, i'm sorry about your break up. do you mean physically there yet emotionally apart? Thank must've felt terrible, hope you feel better soon :)
Cass, thanks so much for your advices. It works! :D
I'm getting almost over with that stuff and I'm ready for the next thing :)
Aww i'm disappointed that you failed to stay together because of the distance :( But hey, everything happens for a reason! Thanks for stopping by
Ha! tell me about it cass, i haven't actually SEEN him for more than 6 months, and even that, i definitely notice his change of character. and i'm not sure i know the same person anymore. i'm positive i've changed too. i can feel it in my bones, the changes occuring. i'll just have to wait and see whether or not his change & mine can still cope with our 'old' relationship
I love ur post.
Long distance relationship ! yeah, me too, but i think u're luckier than me sist.
when i read ur posting, huaaa I really really miss my boyfriend.
we haven't met for a year now.
and, i don't know when i can see him again.
Awwh, that sucks! I'm so sorry :(
Wow, your boyfriend is very lucky to be there Michelle! Be tough, i know you must miss him like crazy, but don't forget, time flies faaaast. You'll see him soon
;)
Aaah, i'm totally missing my boyfriend so much. He's in Los Angeles right now, haven't met for 5 months now.
Nice lomo photos
Dear Atika,
Where exactly are you? Jakarta? Or maybe Jogjakarta. Well you can buy medium format films at Aksara Bookstore, or Hey Folks! Shop at Mayestik. That's if you're in Jakarta. if you're in Jogja, Central Photo at Jalan Solo, the films are always in stock!
it will very awful at first, i never stopped crying. But i stopped eventually, and now, we're okay. And so should you, you'll be fine! You will just miss him more but that only means you'll get to start loving him more as well :p At least that's what i think
hello cass!
my relationship?..well, its a long distance kind also.
and yeah, i always notice that "changes" you were talking about. and mostly i came to the point where i ask myself who is this guy in front of me. It seems that i dont know him anymore.
that im missing the old him.
but we change, he change and i change. thats it. its constant.
im just having that deep faith and trust which is vital for this kind of relationship.
you write just like what i want to write but could never find a right word for it.especially on 'change' part.
I've got no love story for you (unless my dog counts), but I do love your photos! Don't discount your work so easily.
lucky you! it's very difficult for me doing LDR, maybe because we did it since the beginning. separate between jogja and east borneo. i try to get home
as often as possible, once in every month maybe. finally, just few hours ago we decided to end our relationship. not because of the distance, but because another guy. so sad.
i love your shots! :D
aku udah pernah nyoba pake diana, tapi gagal :(
hehehe
cas, i had the same problem like yours. once you met him, it feels like you want to kiss hug and be with him all the time. but sometimes when you're apart, he will always there. when he's close sometimes he feels so far away. that's what i felt. i broke up with my boyfriend when he's close. but i guess you will work it out, cas. i know you will :)
Dear Cassey
I'm from a tiny town called Kelloholm, which is in Scotland. I'm a huge fan of your words and your photography. Also, I was so thrilled when you wrote of Plato, which is one of my favourite legends!
Anyway! My girlfriend and I (i'm gay) have been together for 9 months and 2 days now. We came together in a wonderful twist of fate, after I was completely fucked over by a girl who also fucked over my girlfriend. We were both very hurt by her, even though it happened at very different times. It somehow brought us together. We live only three streets away and also attend the same college, so we see each other almost everyday. But I still always miss her like crazy and get so excited to her. I see her once again in 3 and half hours, god am I excited. I'm one of the lucky ones <3
it sucks that you live so far away from Jason :(
oh, thats so true Cassey. fyi, we're in the same boat. yeah distance is nothing compared to how deep our love to him right? i miss my boyfriend like hell and thats so hurts. my goddddd! -,- yes! it test my patience skills too. its killing meee! but the good thing about long distance relationship is, it makes us to be more stronger. am i right? :]
you and jason look so adorable together! don't worry changes do happen every time. maybe it's just that they seem to be more real when you see him in person. unlike you, couples who meet daily might experiencing these changes rather gradually that's why the changes may appear to be more significant to you, cause you get to see jason in such frequency. well... but that's just me being a smarty-pants :--P
Oh and i went out to eat sushi with my boyfriend yesterday and he almost had this allergic reaction to cod roe which was sprinkled all over his order haha thank god it didn't get worse though
Ah,yes. Long distance relationship(s).That's what I had the last time. Medan - London. YAY !!!,isn't it ?! Hehe
Didn't last.
But,the ironic part is,it could probably be the best "relationship" I've had so far.I've learned a lot about trust. He taught me well. Hehe. And damn,I miss him SO MUCH !!
Well,that's the story,in a nutshell.
PS : Sorry about N.E.R.D being canceled. :(
casseeyy, i feel exactly the same feeling as you dooo! -well, i think anyone who's in a long-distance-relationship does too;p
im in australia and my bf is in indo :S
it's so annoying how when i miss him sooo badly like crazy but yet i can't see/meet him!! huhuh but i just think it as distance or being apart isn't an obstacle, but rather a beautiful reminder how strong true love can be. agree? ;)
aaah LDR?
my relationship is broken because of that. He was flirting with another girl tough we'd been a very nice couple for more than three years. :'(
but now we're such a good friend, though now he is dating with that girl.
i hope you and jason will not have a case like me cas. i like to see you and jason, i love to read your story, you're such a very match couple! ^^
congratulations on your new camera, i would love to meet her someday and see the results as well! i can't wait to take photos of you and jason! it's going to be super duper : )
maaaan I hate LDR !!!!! I ended up my 4 year relationship with my ex cause
of this distance things :S and now, I only have about 3 months to spend with my bf, cause yes, this distance things. Hfffff :((
I hope you can keep the good relation with your boy Cas :)) !
Nice pictures (as usual :D !) by the way :)
yes, change is the only constant thing in life (well, maybe one of them). aaah been single for a year now, broke up with my ex cos i couldn't stand LDR. how sad. agree with previous comment, tell us your life as philosophy student :) i just think philosophy is beautiful, i love arguing about philosophy vs religion hahaha
huff i think i'll be exactly in a same situation like you.. i'm going to have a ldr relationship with my bf.. we've been together for 2 years, but he have to go to college in singapore.. can you imagine how far jakarta and singapore aaaaaaaaaaa! and evertytime i to talk to him about my feeling, n how worry i am, he keeps saying that jakarta and singapore is NOT FAR, gosh!
>Awesome Sara
Hahahaha well you should, at least you have a cat, my landlord totally sucks, He wouldn't let my have a pet. So it's pretty much just me
>Magic Pants Jones
YOUR DOG COUNTS! i love animals too you know, i'd love to get to you know you as well. Thanks for the love! i'm not giving any discount for my work, just not giving too much credit on myself knowing there are waaay more amazing works out there :p
distance is really nothing, as long as you both can keep the rel going on altogether cas.
anyway i think im way more interested in the SUPER HILARIOUS video you gave! hahahahahahaha it's funnily creative. ima google them after this
>Sheyka
AHAHAHA LOL! Yeah, saying "Pff" is like a habit now. i picked it up from my french friend, who says that like every minute! :p Well i'm glad you're interested with philosophy. Let me tell you something, everyone is a philosopher! A good philosopher is one who thinks, about anything of course, and as result of one's thinking, a conclusion, a belief, a meaning. Anything! And there you have it, a philosophy. You are a philosopher too, you think, you read, you write, you tell people what you think and you believe in what you think. it's as simple as that. Just posting a new post on your blog is already a movement of "philosophizing"
The crazy philosophers, let's say Plato or Aristotle, or Bung Karno; They tend to be very vocal about their beliefs, they talk about what they've think about and tell everyone about it. Of course, because they are geniuses, everyone gets affected and follows their path in certain matters. And it's pretty much the same about religion, one of the biggest questions in philosophy is about God. Who is God? Who created God? What's the proof that God really exists? Well those questions are pretty nasty, and as a thinking being, you think about it and it will drive you crazy. Usually that's the question that drives people insane (i've met a lot of people who really went insane because of these questions). Another famous philosopher, Socrates asked, "Did God create humans, or human create God? if God created humans, who created God?" Well, did that question affected you? Hehehehe. Don't take it seriously though, i don't want to be responsible if you go nuts for real! :p i'll email you this answer as well, who knows you don't stumble back here. Have a nice day
>ndr ntsy
i'm glad i could be your voice :)
>Putri Erdisa
Hi there sweetheart. Hang in there, remember life doesn't revolve around boys only. And life is too short to chase boys around. Talk to him again, nicely. Ask him what you did wrong. if things don't go your way, deal with it, and move on. You know you'll be fine. G'luck!
>meek-meek
Hello! That's the exact same question that was running through my head, like "man, who are you?!" it really does seem like i don't know him either. But yeah, everyone changes, i know it's normal, just dealing with it is quite a pickle. i guess only trust can play this game :')
>mybrainsgrowell
Oh my, i'm so sorry to hear that. i hope you're doing fine, breaking up is terrible, no matter what the excuse is. Hang in there will ya, hugs from me to you :)
>dinta
Thank you Dinta! Ah masa gagal, dibaca aja manualnya, cukup gampang kok. Dan banyaaaaak banget tips kalo search di google. Pertama kali cetak juga aku kecewa kok, dari sekian roll film yang "berhasil" juga cuman dikit. Tapi itu rahasianya main lomography, karena lomography adalah teknik foto "accident" atau "lucky shot" karena nggak bisa kita atur2 :) Terus dicoba! Ayo terus berkreasi!
>Jenny
Dear Jenny,
First of all, thanks for being a fan! it's so awkward for me to say that, but i must admit, i'm really blushing. That's so awesome that you're from Scotland, one day i'll travel over there. i will! and i'll keep my word!
Yeah you're so lucky! You know what, everyone should be like you. We are all lucky in different ways, and i'm so happy you know you are :) it must be great to see each other everyday. When i was still in high school i felt exactly like you. i live so close to Jason and we go to the same school, we see each other everyday as well. Everytime i go home, i just can't wait to see him again the next day. Oh it was exicting! Thanks for your comment, i really enjoyed reading your comment :)
>shayy-ghaaa
Of course, like i said, distance is nothing. We can beat it! (hopefully hehehe)
But yes, i agree with you indeed. it does makes us stronger.
>disa
Yes exactly. When we're apart we call up each other everyday, we send emails, we talk talk talk and talk about how much we miss each other. it feels sooo good. But once we meet, it's like.. zzzzzz. i just can't explain, but i'm guessing you know what i mean :) i'm sorry you broke up with your bf, hang in there ok, we'll all work our problems out, we all know!
>Nunu Fithria
No! You're not a smarty-pants at all! Actually you simply answered my question! i really truly didn't think of that. You're absolutely right, perhaps that's why every time we meet each other it seems so many things has changed, and it gets disturbing and requires time to adapt again. Not like other couple who can easily see each other, they watch each other grow, so the changes doesn't come in shock so sudden! You're soooo awesome, hahahaha thank you! Oh, poor boyfriend of yours, allergies sucks so bad! i hate em! Why would allergy diseases need to exist?! Glad he's ok :)
>u.n.e.e
Whoa, that's totally YAY. Hahahaha. But everything happens for a reason, at least you learned a lot about trust, i'm learning that too now. Hanging in here, wondering what he's doing. it's hard, but i'm getting better :D
Oh yeah, i'm so pissed that N.E.R.D got canceled. i got on a 10-hour train to Jakarta, got 2 tickets for me & Jason, i got sick because i was soooo tired, and it got CANCELED?!!! GOSH! i was furious. and the next day i had to come back to Jogja on another 10-hour train ride. Now i feel horrible, so sick :(
>chitchats
Chitra sayaaang. Heheheh aku malu lho, dulu bikin blog cuman iseng, never thought people would love it. Laku ya aku! Hehehehe, iya aku seneng juga jadinya, jadi banyak yang nemenin kan kalo seneng, sedih, dan lain-lain. Everyone is so awesome, so so awesome!
Well i know it must be harder for you, living so far away :( bukan cuman pacar aja yg susah ketemu, susah ketemu Cassey juga kan! You know you'll hang in there right, jangan nyerah ya chiiiit. You'll be fine!
>Lina Zainal
Hehehehe yeaaaah, i was so thrilled when i found it. it was so ugly looking, but i'm betting the results are wicked. i can't wait to see you again, can't wait to have an awesome photo of me & Jason taken by you :D
>Birth of Venus
Yep, now i can see why i'm so shocked with all his sudden changes, it's just because i don't see him everyday so i just miss the small changes and once we meet there's like a whole bunch of changes, hahahaha. About my life as a philosophy student, you can read my brief explanation above to Sheyka. i've added a little about religion up there :p Maybe i'll make a special post about it soon, i'm thinking about it :)
>charlotte
Ahahahaa yeah, that's pretty far. it's not as easy as my situation where i can still get on a train or a bus if i'm low on cash but seriously need to see my bf. But you know what, your relationship should be mature enough to deal with this, 2 years! 2 years! You'll be fine :) Trust is the key. i bet you miss him like crazy, we're all feeling ya there sweetie :p
>Kimo Allegra
Thanks! Glad you like em!
Wow, your comment really touched me. Yeah, self-searching is indeed a good reason for changes. i'm really sorry about your broken heart. There's nothing i can say to mend it, but i really hope you get better. You should stop pretending that's it's OK. it's OK to feel miserable, you can cry and cry and cry some more, let it out, scream as hard as you could. Talk to your friends, talk to your family. Once it's all out, lock your emotional door. Stop crying, start smiling, and move on. Look out for the world up ahead of you, look how wonderful it is. You can always talk to him, who knows you guys can work it out, but if you can't, then fuck it. Move on! :)
>Dhil
Absolutely. i know i shouldn't take it as an obstacle, it's a practice like i said. it's em.. yeah, simple as it is, just a practice. And of course i agree, it's a beautiful reminder, when we meet each other again, it's nothing but exciting, joyful, happy, just all the good feelings! and every minute counts, so we won't waste any :D That's a good thought of yours, keep thinking like that, and time will fly, you'll be in his arms again! :)
>whoever
Oh man, sorry about that. That's my biggest fear. i'm soooooo scared Jason would leave me for someone else, or even if he doesn't leave me, i'm scared he's flirting around with other chicks. it freaks me out, and turns me into this jealous paranoid girlfriend which i'm not! And it's disturbing him because i always get kinda grumpy when i find out there are girls checking him out -_- But i hope we'll do fine. And so do you, hope you'll be able to feel better :)
>Athyssa
No way! Why did you end a 4 year relationship because of distance??? Are you like moving to the north pole?? That's such a pity :(
>bey
Hahahaha, i'm glad you loved Metronomy's video. That one is just awesome, it's so funny. Most of their videos are very entertaining, you should check them out on youtube :D
there's a friend i like more than a friend for 3 years now and i so love him but it's helpless since he's under the exactly same situaation as i do only with her schoolmate ... now they're going out and graduating and going to a same college together and im becoming more helplesssss
My dearly too pretty cassie! Gw tambahin love story yaaa.. My love story is so weird..I'm in love with manchester united's midfielder..his name's anderson and from brazil..I'm in love like real in love like in love with someone I really trully know..weird? O yeah I told you remember??hahahha..its not a fan-crazy-madness-love..OMG OMG OMFG..I looooove him!!!!!
Hi Cassey, would you give me your blog e-mail so I can invite you to be my blog readers?
Your blog is awesome :D Like it!
cassey on his facebook he seems ... happy . with his long-awaited girlfriend . i cant. disturb. his. happy. life.
cassey i didnt thought you'd reply me with such a long comment IT TOUCHES ME huaa i feel like im going to cry ! thank youuuuuuuuuu !! from the deepest of my heart !
yeah maybe i can do that .. writing him a letter ... thank you again for the idea ( : he's going to bandung for college anyway, it won't be too embarassing if he rejects me (haha) . and i am sooo happy it comes to a very great end for you and jason ( : you deserve that ! since you're so nice to us and stuff . thank you again cassey ... wish me luck ! i'll let you know when i've sent him the letter
>Anonymous
Awww, noo. I'm so sorry! You know what, i was in the exact same situation two years ago. i was bestfriends with Jason, we were very close. Yet he was dating other girls, and i had to hide my feelings from him, pretending i'm OK. i waited for a year, but apparently things didn't go my way. i got so helpless, and desperate, i finally gave up. i decided to let my feelings go. But then my friend convinced me that i was stupid, and all i need to do is to be honest. Whatever the outcome is, at least he knows what i feel. But because i'm wuss (haha) it just wasn't that easy to admit to his face, so you know what i did? i wrote a loooooong letter to him. i was on my way to the airport, leaving to Europe for a couple of weeks. i left the letter with my friend, and she gave it to him on christmas. That letter told him that i've been having feelings for him for 1 year already, but i'm desperate for getting his attention, and by writing that letter, i'm letting him go. Didn't hear for him since i left, but when i came back. He was waiting for me :') And told me he felt the same, it was so shocking. Apparently, he was helpless with me as well. it was a funny coincidence and now we're still together and we're very happy.
Maybe, maybe, you should be honest. 3 years? How could you hide something for 3 years? Why don't you be honest, his your friend after all. You've got nothing to lose :)
i know how you must feel for being far far away jason because its exactly what i feel about my bf (he's my ex now,whatever) too :)
we were having a LDR too.he studied in germany. but the thing is, he never came back.
i havent heard anything from him for like a month when his mom suddenly called me and informed that he had passed 2 weeks earlier.
i usually dont talk about him to people, and i dont know why i want to share it with you Cass.maybe because you're such an open-minded person, or maybe because i'm too tired keeping it for myself.
so thanks anyway :)
>sara viana
Hi Sara! Yeah you should invite me, every time i try to check out you blog, I'm denied! Refused! Hahahaha. My blog email is cassey_superbunn@hotmail.com. Wow that's an embarrassing email teehee.
>Anonymous
Hey, don't cry! Ahahahaa. i was just trying to get you to understand that being honest is a good choice. Well it would be wrong if you tell him now, his girlfriend might hate you forever. But trust your heart. Don't keep hurting it :) You really really should try to be honest.
>karl's sweet child
Haahahaha yes you told me once, but i never knew it was like lN LOOOOVE?!! Hahahahaa you're crazy! i have football crushes as well, my biggest obsession is lker Cassilas. Oh man. Can't get enough of him
hey cassey! reading you blog makes me realize that the LDR thingy aint easy huh? It must feel weird seeing the changes in Jason once you guys meet. Ah, reading your blog makes me worry about my relationship with monang nanti kalo udah musti pisah. (haha padahal masih lama gitu, tp gw sih optimis bisa nyampe selama itu deh hehehe :p) Dia tinggalin gw naik gunung 10 hari aja gw kangen, gimana gak ketemu 2 or 3 months (or more)? haha well, I think you're a great girlfriend, thinking being apart is "great practice" instead of complaining about it :)
take care cass, awesome blog by the way :)
wuwww..yang ekor pesawat...niceeeee
great pics with nina!!
someday...diana snowcat ....
hey cassey,i have read your post. and i think that i have the same feeling with you that in ldr somethings must be changes.
my boyfriend is in ugm too,and i have to feel the right feelings with you. that ldr was sucks..
I've invited you. My english is bad, dont laugh at my posts okay? Hahahahaha.
i remember my ex liked white kitkats.
now somehow i cultivated a love for them too :D
the diana shot with the signs is great! black and white film is beautiful too :D :D
hope you're doing well cassey
love the diana shots! :D
I absolutely love your Diana shots :) I suppose LDR are the true test of a relationship, and not being there to see those small (or big) changes can be difficult. I guess it's down to faith and love - faith that you can go with the changes and trust them, and then the fact that if you love them, any time or distance is worth it.
hey cassey i hope you remember me, still remember the person who told you that she was going to do a LDR thingy exactly the same time when you were going to do the long distance relationship too? i gave that comment on your dA journal :)
well, i broke up with him, long distance thing just didn't work well, because he cheated on me. but, i'm currently very happy because i have a new lalalove, which much much much better than him :)
ps: i use your black and white action on my photos, if you have time, do you mind to check the result on my blog?
casey, how are you? do remember me? hehe.
i wanna tell you that my long distance relationship was failed. he's in Surabaya. i'm not lucky enough like you huhu. instead of more loves him when i met, i'm less loving him and so did him.
congrats for you and your boyfriend! :)
miss youuu!
>Laura
Dearest Laura, I'm very very sorry to know that. That must felt horrible, how did you handled it? You're very brave to even talk about it. This is something i can't say anything about to make it better. Hope you're doing fine. i've lost a lot of people that i care about also, one of my ex's has passed too. But i always remember, that those who are good men, die young. They're so good, God wanted them to hurry come home. Thank you for sharing, hugs from me directly to you. :')
>jellypilotot
Thank you! Still learning :p
>Andrea Violetta
Hello you! Ada blog juga toh, nanti tak follow deh! Hahahaha. Oh man, you've still got another year to make your relationship stronger, use your time as well as possible. But don't worry, even though i keep saying how tough LDR is, it's really not that bad (but it requires whole world of trust of course). At first i couldn't stand missing Jason, but now i actually really try to meet him once in a couple months. Because nothing's better than a hug after not seeing your bf for months, oh it's really the best. Monang mah ga bakal kemana2 dre, he's so into you, he wouldn't dare to lose you :) Thanks for stopping by!
>syalalla
Glad you love em!
>dapper kid
Wow, i'm happy you love them! i'm really still learning, and that's really the best i could get so far, the other ones really suck, seriously hahaha.
i couldn't agree with you more! You're so right, it is tough, but it is definitely worth it!
>hanna
Of course i remember you, i am kinda old, but i still have a good memory i suppose hahaha. Ah my biggest fear, being cheated on. i'm sorry to know about that, but i'm glad you're over him already! And i'm happy to know you're feeling happy. Thanks for using my action, i'll check it out asap :)
aku juga LDR kak. susah ketemunya.
love the pictures :)
teach me how to use diana, i have one but i don't know how to use it.
i'd been in your situation once....
My ex boyfriend was in Beijing at that time, and i was in Balikpapan...
It's hard at the first time...
And it's happened too cass,
i felt like he's changed, when the first time we met again..
but We still can handle that..
until, one time we end up our relationship, without any rational reason....
i'd been with him for almost 1 year and 3 months..
>sofia and pipu
Sofiaaa! Hi hi hi! i'm doing greaaaat! Of course i remember you silly. Aww don't say you're unlucky. You must have felt like that only because you can't handle the changes! That's pretty much like me too, it also feels like the love is fading away, but i chose to take time to catch up. You should too you know! Don't give up on your relationship! i miss you too!
>sara viana
Awesome, i'm checking out your blog right now
>arin
Hahahaha well it suck alright, but it doesn't mean you should stop fighting to go through it. You must remember it will all worth all the suckyness. Seriously! Evem though i haven't proven it yet, but i will, and i'll tell you that LDR does sucks, but it has a very good impact on my relationship :)
>fely-wely
Aww that's sweet, Jason likes books about liberalism, and one colored tees, which now i like too. Thanks about the photos! i haven't found any black and white films yet, it's soooo hard to get those 120 films nowadays pff. i'm doing great, thanks! Hope you are too
>connie florencia santoso
Oh thanks! Well it's pretty simple, it's all in the manual, you really should read it. i could email you a manual if you like :)
>Kimo Allegra
Wow! i'm happy i could help! You're welcome!
>petrice
i'm so happy that you actually handled it, but then you ended it? Why? But that's another thing about relationships, that just work or don't :) Hope you're OK
i am in a long distance relationship as well. in a way, yes, i admit that it makes me go all giddy when its time to see him again. but, of course, i hate the part where i miss so much about him. him not being anywhere close to me makes me feel like i lost a big part of myself. and i constantly worry that one of us might change as the distance is one of the greatest challenge in any relationship.
i know exactly how it feel. the feeling that he's not the same guy that i knew 6 months ago. but we still love each other, that's it..
i'm also using diana F+.. those pictures u took are nice..
i don't know why...:)
yeah,,,
i'm okey..
i've a new one now...
his name is bima..
:)..
and i'm happy with him...
hhe...
hope your relationship works with him.
you look perfect for each other..
:)
nice shots, i like those pics. you're using exposure effect right? damn i love exposured pictures haha
I'm having an LDR now and I feel quite OK with it. it's been going on for almost a year. many times we miss each other, but the most exciting thing is when we finally meet! I'm so lucky (and so is he) that I don't think we change that much. I don't know why but I always get the feeling that it was him all this time. :)
I love how open you are about you blog :) I don't think i can do that because a lot of my friends read my blog but not as many people i havent met, so I feel bad if i havent written about one friend more than another, so I just dont bother :P
BUT
i have a love story, and im willing to share it because we're finally telling people now ^__^
this may sound really strange at first but just keep reading... Me and my mum's boyfriend's son are going out. He's 4 years older than me, and im only 16, but it's really amazing how comfortable we are with it. I guess it's because I've known him since I was just 3 years old and we kind of grew up together :) but yeah, I just thought it might be nice to tell someone :D
To say your are no good at lomography is like punching a puppy in the face.hahaha, maybe not so extreme but those shots are great!My love stories are pretty lame and not worth mentioning but i have an Holga that i'm in love with,so that's sort of like a relationship right?lol.I have yet to develop anything good,but using it is quite fun and developing film is like an adventure.
kak, ceritain gmana kakak bsa sama jason dong.. hehehe.. aku penasaran
>xanabioticx
Yes, exactly. i feel that too, whenever we're apart it feels like he took a part of me with me. Those changes really happen, whether we can handle it or not, it's all just up to us apparently
>Detta
Hahahahha don't punch a puppy please hahaha. Well thank you very much, i'm glad you think so, because i'm really a newbie! You should keep practicing! Lomography is all about lucky shots, no techniques at all! Those good photos i luckily got were results from 9 rolls! All the other photos really sucked :p
>nenoneno
That's really great, really great! it's good to feel good about each other, and if you think everything is just perfect, well keep it going, i'm really happy for you :)
>petrice
Wow, congrats on your new love :)
>Lawinda Cempaka Nurti
Now that's my point, the changes happen, and yes sometimes it's disturbing, but at the end of day we still love each other dearly, and nothing's more important than that.
>erika
That's very sweet, really. To be honest i do find it a little weird, i would never date my mom's bf's son, but to know you're comfortable, and happy really doesn't make it weird, just plain sweet. i can't imagine dating someone whom you've grown up with :)
>karla
Yes, double exposure :) Glad you love em! Thank you very much
>sleepyheaded nindya
Awwh hehehhee. Perasaan aku pernah ngepost kok, tapi aku lupa yang mana. Ntar ya kapan2 aku post tentang ketemu Jason :)
OMG,,,i really love this one...
well,,mine doesn't really work that well...kinda sucks, yeah!!!that's why we broke up...but i still love him that much...very pathetic...cant do anything while the distance separated us this far...keep writing!
You and Kevin are a motivation for me, you guys really fought through the time!!! I'm sure both of you have changed in certain ways, but i bet you'll be fine! Don't waste all the waiting just because of silly changes :p
i miss my boyfriend too . huaa . for six months we can't meet each other .
by the way, nice photo . and nice to know you .
*hope we can be friend
issyeperfecto.blogspot.com
hi cass, i just found your blog n i like it! you have amazing spirit. :)
btw, am also in that kinda relationship.
yea, sometimes it's tiring & also not easy but actually not that hard. i write on my blog everytime i need a place to complain about it. (maybe am gonna refer this post if i wanna write about 'change thingy' - if you dont mind ofkors).
eniwei, wimar witoelar said, "kl cinta kita kuat, besi pun akan bengkok"
good luck with your ldr! ;)
hey cassey, i must say i love every posts you wrote =)
and the photos are nice, really.
love story? well, i have a bf, and we'll be separated every 4 months or so for 3weeks because of our holiday make us go back to our country, he goes back to Kazakhstan and me to Jakarta. when he's in his country it is so hard to communicate, we cant send sms to each other, he rarely go online and the cost to call to each others country is so expensive! =(
once after he got back from his country i notice something has changed, and we broke up. but then we got back together and become better than before =)
so i hope u dont find difficulties ya in ur LDR, i know how it feels to be separated miles away when u dont want to =)
keep writing cassey, i love them!
*sorry for so long comment =p
cassey,,,
i was just thinkng..what u gonna do if u broke up with someone,,he ditched u away and doesnt wanna talk to anymore..r u gonna keep waiting for something unpredictable bcoz u love him tht much or move on and find someone else tht probably not as good as him?
plz answer it...tht might help.
gracias!
>issye margaretha kamal
Awwh, six months? i've never been away from my boyfriend for more than three months!
Thank you for stopping by, of course we can be friends! Nice to know you as well
>wulan aquariyanti
Well thank you very much!
Oh my that's a wonderful quote!
>acilala
Really? Aren't you the sweetest! Thank you very much for the love!
Wow your boyfriend lives in Kazakhstan??? That's uber cool! Aww, but i understand it must be so hard being so far away from each other. Sometimes you do need your own space, you need a break from each other, it's okay. What's important is you get back together! i've done that once in my relationship :)
i also wish you the best for your LDR!
>rieka sartika
Well, i wouldn't be hypocritical, and say i'll easily move on. Of course i'd wish for things to go better. i'd wait for that unpredictable miracle. How ever, i will also understand that hoping for something too much just pushes the chances for it to come true. So, i'll wait patiently while moving on slowly. if things don't go my way, i'll be okay. Life is too short to be depressed :)
aww,,,
yeah!tht's true =)
thx anyway...
gud luck with u and jason,,
hope u guys doing well...
^^
hopefully i can get rid of this kinda crap asap,,wish me luck!!!
you are very welcome cass =)
yap he is a Kazakh guy, we meet here in Malaysia in our university thats why during holiday time i go back to Jakarta and he goes back to Kazah, and 3 weeks is already long enough for me to be far from him =p
im so glad we're back together after broke up, we understand that we need each other hihi.
well i hope u and Jason dont need to be back together again ya, cause i wish u two never broke up and have a long lasting relationship =D
all the best for u two!!
>rieka sartika
Awwh, hang in there :)
>acilalala
Awesomeness. i'm glad you're glad :) Thanks, i do hope our relationship can last :)
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